Wednesday, 23 October 2013

WE ARE WHAT WE EAT




Food is a very important part of my life. What im going to eat next is always in the back of my mind. Therefore I end up having several conversations about food daily. since recently I have decided to take a healthier approach and it got me thinking about the change in diet over the years and hw just like everything else food has evolved. 


Growing up I was virtually indestructible, and many of you might share this same view on your childhood. Playing outside and not being under constant supervision from our parents we had many opportunities to eat something that was less than suitable for eating, however there were hardly any consequences.  I attribute this to the diet I had as a child. Snacks weren’t deep fried and dipped in chocolate. It was common place to drink water every day. The products used were naturally grown and needless to say an obese child was a rarity.  
 




The older population was also generally healthier. Diabetes, obesity  and hypertension were not as common as they are today and were ‘old people’ illnesses.   Colon cancer was so rare that hospitals had 2-3 reported cases per year.

But as time progressed the food available changed and so did the general health of the population. Babies are being born with diabetes. 3 year old children having strokes and  we have little or no resistance to viruses.  For many of us if we drink some water from the pipe without boiling it we will feel the effects for days (while our grandparents grew up using rain filled  tank water and were perfectly fine).
We have diverted from the naturally grown provisions that provided us with authentic nutrients to genetically grown food that are ready for harvesting 3 weeks after planting.  Water is no longer used to wash ground provisions, instead most producers use chemical peels.  


Fast food has replaced home cooked meals and the microwave the main means of ‘cooking’ for many of my peers. I will not bore you with my opinion on how safe microwaves are but for your reading pleasures http://www.snopes.com/science/microwave/plants.asp make your own conclusions.



Too many things have been almost completely eliminated from our diet. When was the last time you has soursop juice, naturally made carrot juice or even a cucumber?  All of these being things with surprising health benefits. Instead we chose sodas and kool aid as our preferred source of hydration.


Colon cancer is just as prevalent  as obesity the reason for which is thought to be as simple as not eating enough fruits. Cancers are developing in places people didn’t even know they had. Mint tea is no longer taken from the backyard instead we buy a pack from the store that has added chemicals such as cafeen

We have an older population due to the fact that older people have a longer life expectancy than younger ones because of our diet. What we have become accustomed to eating are more  We are living in a very unhealthy world. And even though a healthier lifestyle may be more expensive and time consuming isn’t a long healthy life worth it? “health is the most important factor for each one of us to live a happy and fulfilling life. Without our health, we lose the freedom to fulfill our potential” 




Sunday, 13 October 2013

R-E-S-P-E-C-T...



It has been the longest standing issue that women have “men are no good” “all the good men are taken” etc. over the years the reason for these statements have changed. Currently females are having this problem because men don’t know how to treat a lady or how to act in a relationship and most men don’t even want a relationship. And this cry is getting more popular each day. But have the women ever stopped to think that they may be the reason men are like that?  Could it be that the men are just adjusting their actions to match yours? 



I am well aware that times are changing and women are more liberated and are free to express their sexuality. But isn’t there a limit to this?  Also if females are changing how they view relationships it’s only natural that the male population would adjust their approach as well.

The social networks are the main avenue for male and female interactions and it seems to me that females are unaware of how their actions on these social medias impact how males approach them. Females are uploading half naked pictures on facebook and instagram and are surprised when men treat them like sex objects. Its like wearing a really low cut shirt and getting offending when somebody looks at your cleavage . 





Daily my timeline is flooded with tweets from females talking about their sexual encounters and their ‘boobs’ and how well they can do this and their favourite sexual activities. But these are the same females demanding respect and a good man and get offended when the men try to purchase what they are advertising.

All this is doing is making it difficult for females that don’t feel the need to make their sexual preferences or body parts a topic for open dissuasion.  Men today don’t think its necessary to ease their way into a relationship they add you on BBM are  asking for “nudes” and I am left to think “ who have these men been talking to ?” is this the way females are operating these days? How many females have to be sending out naked pictures to guys that they hardly know or aren’t in a relationship with for guys to think its ok to ask any female.  




It also seems that females haven’t realized that maybe they cant find anybody willing to be in a relationship with them because they leave nothing until there is a relationship. Sex is so common place that it isn’t even a big deal. Therefore if you are willing to sleep with a man off the bat why would he bother to get into a committed relationship? Why buy what he can get for free.

The cycle is unending. Females advertising themselves as sexual objects , sleeping around, being the ‘cool’ girl that doesn’t want to get attached , are the same females that are getting offended when guys don’t treat them with the respect they think they deserve or when they cant find anybody to take them seriously in a relationship.

All this sexual liberation is doing is giving men the excuse they have always wanted to not put in any effort. they don’t have to bother themselves with trivial things like getting to know you and respecting you.   After all “its just sex” . 

People treat you how you allow them to. With  that said if females demanded some respect or didn’t make themselves so easy to get maybe the men would have a different approach.And at the end of the day these same men that you are trying to attract with these pictures and happy go lucky attitude wont be looking your direction when they are ready to settle down. It’s a man’s job to respect a woman, but it’s a woman’s job to give him something to respect.