It has been the longest standing issue that women have “men
are no good” “all the good men are taken” etc. over the years the reason for
these statements have changed. Currently females are having this problem
because men don’t know how to treat a lady or how to act in a relationship and
most men don’t even want a relationship. And this cry is getting more popular
each day. But have the women ever stopped to think that they may be the reason
men are like that? Could it be that the
men are just adjusting their actions to match yours?
I am well aware that times are changing and women are more
liberated and are free to express their sexuality. But isn’t there a limit to
this? Also if females are changing how
they view relationships it’s only natural that the male population would adjust
their approach as well.
The social networks are the main avenue for male and female interactions
and it seems to me that females are unaware of how their actions on these
social medias impact how males approach them. Females are uploading half naked
pictures on facebook and instagram and are surprised when men treat them like
sex objects. Its like wearing a really low cut shirt and getting offending when
somebody looks at your cleavage .
Daily my timeline is flooded with tweets from females
talking about their sexual encounters and their ‘boobs’ and how well they can do
this and their favourite sexual activities. But these are the same females
demanding respect and a good man and get offended when the men try to purchase
what they are advertising.
All this is doing is making it difficult for females that don’t
feel the need to make their sexual preferences or body parts a topic for open dissuasion.
Men today don’t think its necessary to
ease their way into a relationship they add you on BBM are asking for “nudes” and I am left to think “
who have these men been talking to ?” is this the way females are operating
these days? How many females have to be sending out naked pictures to guys that
they hardly know or aren’t in a relationship with for guys to think its ok to
ask any female.
It also seems that females haven’t realized that maybe they
cant find anybody willing to be in a relationship with them because they leave
nothing until there is a relationship. Sex is so common place that it isn’t even
a big deal. Therefore if you are willing to sleep with a man off the bat why
would he bother to get into a committed relationship? Why buy what he can get
for free.
The cycle is unending. Females advertising themselves as
sexual objects , sleeping around, being the ‘cool’ girl that doesn’t want to
get attached , are the same females that are getting offended when guys don’t treat
them with the respect they think they deserve or when they cant find anybody to
take them seriously in a relationship.
All this sexual liberation is doing is giving men the excuse
they have always wanted to not put in any effort. they don’t have to bother themselves
with trivial things like getting to know you and respecting you. After all
“its just sex” .
People treat you how you allow them to. With that said if females demanded some respect or didn’t
make themselves so easy to get maybe the men would have a different approach.And
at the end of the day these same men that you are trying to attract with these
pictures and happy go lucky attitude wont be looking your direction when they
are ready to settle down. It’s a man’s job to respect a woman, but it’s a woman’s
job to give him something to respect.
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